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Post by Deleted on Jun 1, 2011 1:44:24 GMT -5
So I've decided that I am going to finally ask this girl out. I am way too wussy to just ASK her out, and prefer to go my own... "groove." Here's my plan, which I will do tomorrow. First, I'm going to ask her to come watch this video I made. I'm going to tell her none of the dumb guys around would appreciate this art, and I will show it to her. This is the video. It took me literally 8 hours to make today. I know, it still kind of looks like crap. Second. As she leaves to go back to sit down, I'm going to go up to her, and give her a rose, and ask her to go out with me <3 Genius I know. If you want to copy my idea, go for it. Even use my video if you want lol like she'll know  Anyways, I'll make a follow up video showing what happened. Will she say yes (OMG I ALMOST PEED MY PANTS THINKING ABOUT IT) or will she say no (OMG I PEED MY PANTS) |
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Post by RobbyMac on Jun 1, 2011 1:46:38 GMT -5
GL fellow hopeless romantic.
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Post by mikessssssss on Jun 1, 2011 3:30:05 GMT -5
Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuude. Just tell her you think she's awesome and then ask her out.
But i hope this works out for ya.
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Post by VenusHeadTrap on Jun 1, 2011 12:09:21 GMT -5
Tell her you picked her and she better take the offer before you change your mind.
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Post by cole77000 on Jun 1, 2011 13:51:53 GMT -5
^ NO! lol... well... if it helps your chances... but idk what that says really. It sends a mixed message IMO. "I picked you because you are special but I may decide you are not special at any moment"... from my experience i can tell that girls want to hear that if there is a relationship it will be long term and will be stable lol telling her your opinion will change at any moment isn't really going to do that lol
EDIT: Good luck buddy!
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Post by yamfriend on Jun 1, 2011 21:05:10 GMT -5
Good luck JP. Glad that at least you're gonna give it a shot, unlike some people who missed their chance (  ). And even if it doesn't work out how you planned, don't beat yourself up man. You tried your best and it's not worth dwelling on. Trust me, I can tell you that from my missed opportunity.  |
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Post by RobbyMac on Jun 1, 2011 22:02:00 GMT -5
JP didnt say how it went yet. IDK if that's good or not....
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Post by Deleted on Jun 1, 2011 22:13:37 GMT -5
No... she said yes... but than she went back and sat down... as if nothing had happened >_> What sucked though was I was all awkward and nervous about it. The way I had it planned out in my head was that I was supposed to treat it like as if I KNEW it was stupid. Instead.... ugh whatever >_> So I'll try talking to her tomorrow, and... yeah. Good luck JP. Glad that at least you're gonna give it a shot, unlike some people who missed their chance ( ). And even if it doesn't work out how you planned, don't beat yourself up man. You tried your best and it's not worth dwelling on. Trust me, I can tell you that from my missed opportunity. Aw bro I feel ya. I've had MANY MANY MANY missed opportunities. I honestly don't know where I all of a sudden got this courage from. It's weird, but dude, don't put your head down. The "Plenty of fish in the sea" saying is so true. |
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Post by RobbyMac on Jun 1, 2011 22:18:50 GMT -5
Honestly, boner kill.... in the least creepy way possible LOL
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Post by chackpop on Jun 3, 2011 22:04:27 GMT -5
I met my girlfriend at a party...two hours after we met I asked her out. Still together to this day  . Love's crazy.. |
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2011 23:27:25 GMT -5
So after hugs, an awkward kiss, and some romantic cuddling moments, I decided to break up with her. I know, I'm a heartless bastard. But she was anti-social, and it was getting on my nerves. All she did all day was watch movies, and without internet, or neighbors, you can see how a girl isolated like that can become warped socially. But it was worth it, and honestly, had I not asked her out, I would've been PLENTY more depressed wondering what could've been.
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Also, word to the wise, if you want to get a girlfriend, TRY not to get one between the end of 12th grade and the start of college. I got a job, and ALOT of my money has been drained on her. You need as much money as possible for college, gas alone is ridiculous. So just saying. If you're going into 12 grade, grow some balls and ask a woman out and hurry!
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Post by supersheep on Aug 3, 2011 23:32:39 GMT -5
Anti-social girls are either the greatest or the worst girls to be with, never a middle ground.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2011 23:43:33 GMT -5
Anti-social girls are either the greatest or the worst girls to be with, never a middle ground. Haha you hit the nail on the head. I think I may keep gambling with these girls. There's like no competition for these girls either, even the cute ones, so I'll keep at it. What about you sheep, got a girl or what? |
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Post by supersheep on Aug 4, 2011 0:03:29 GMT -5
Currently no, I'll spare you the details as to what happened, trust me thats a good idea.
But yeah I agree with you, unless they are so antisocial that it is problematic, its a better bet.
You date one of those popular girls, you gotta share then between parties, their 500 friends, and 100 guys chasing after her. It's a bad deal.
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Post by Lennon on Aug 4, 2011 8:27:43 GMT -5
Yep, I agree with you guys. My girlfriend is one of those antisocial girls, but luckily a lot of those antisocial girls are really cute. And as long as you like the more cute ones than the claimed "hot" ones, then you should be good. Definitely a better bet. I don't think I could keep up with one of those popular girls.
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Post by yamfriend on Aug 4, 2011 12:21:55 GMT -5
Yep, I agree with you guys. My girlfriend is one of those antisocial girls, but luckily a lot of those antisocial girls are really cute. And as long as you like the more cute ones than the claimed "hot" ones, then you should be good. Definitely a better bet. I don't think I could keep up with one of those popular girls. Funny thing you say that because this other girl I kinda like now (who I'm pretty sure likes me back) is kinda shy but really seems to be a lot like me personality-wise. She's never tried to even come close to being one of "those" girls. But alas once again, I'm a little nervous. However, I did hang out with her most of this past Sunday at a graduation party and we even exchanged cell numbers (despite not contacting each other since then). My main issue though is not money or even entirely being nervous, but the fact that we're going to start at different colleges in a few weeks and it's probably not good timing at all. But like JP said, it's better to give it a shot and finding out what would've happened than not saying anything and never finding out. Point blank, what should I do?  |
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Post by supersheep on Aug 4, 2011 13:35:58 GMT -5
Yep, I agree with you guys. My girlfriend is one of those antisocial girls, but luckily a lot of those antisocial girls are really cute. And as long as you like the more cute ones than the claimed "hot" ones, then you should be good. Definitely a better bet. I don't think I could keep up with one of those popular girls. I couldn't, and wouldn't even want to, keep up with one of those popular girls. That's just not my type or my style. |
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Post by scnoi1217 on Aug 4, 2011 14:18:57 GMT -5
Yep, I agree with you guys. My girlfriend is one of those antisocial girls, but luckily a lot of those antisocial girls are really cute. And as long as you like the more cute ones than the claimed "hot" ones, then you should be good. Definitely a better bet. I don't think I could keep up with one of those popular girls. Funny thing you say that because this other girl I kinda like now (who I'm pretty sure likes me back) is kinda shy but really seems to be a lot like me personality-wise. She's never tried to even come close to being one of "those" girls. But alas once again, I'm a little nervous. However, I did hang out with her most of this past Sunday at a graduation party and we even exchanged cell numbers (despite not contacting each other since then). My main issue though is not money or even entirely being nervous, but the fact that we're going to start at different colleges in a few weeks and it's probably not good timing at all. But like JP said, it's better to give it a shot and finding out what would've happened than not saying anything and never finding out. Point blank, what should I do? Go for it, as soon as possible. I think it's better to try and experience it, even for a little bit, then to always regret what could have been. |
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Post by thatoneuser on Aug 4, 2011 22:04:57 GMT -5
So just saying. If you're going into 12 grade, grow some balls and ask a woman out and hurry! Does trying and failing count? |
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Post by supersheep on Aug 4, 2011 22:17:03 GMT -5
So just saying. If you're going into 12 grade, grow some balls and ask a woman out and hurry! Does trying and failing count? Yes. |
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). And even if it doesn't work out how you planned, don't beat yourself up man. You tried your best and it's not worth dwelling on. Trust me, I can tell you that from my missed opportunity. 
. Love's crazy..
